Being perfectly honest, I’ve had this post written for a while. I kept reading and reviewing. Editing my words to ensure I was truly displaying on a screen what was running through my mind. Wondering, should I really post this? What if I mistakenly word something incorrectly and it offends someone? I’ve spent so much time staring at this computer screen, trying to find the right verbiage, trying to find the right closing statement, trying to come up with the right title. It’s such a sensitive time for all of us, the last thing I wanted was to make things worse but, really, isn’t being silent making things worse? So…